So she brought me out there to try out this galloping thing. Now, whenever I have gone on trails with the group in the past, it always ends up Violet and I in the back. When everyone else trots, she canters. When they walk, she alternates between prance and trot, in fear of being left behind.
We got out there, mounted up, walked a ways, me behind the little horse with the BIG walk that Marcy was riding. Then we trotted a bit. We talked about my need to let go. To not be so worried about where Violet places her feet, but to stay out of her way so she could figure it out herself. We started to canter. Violet was playing a bit of catch up, but Marcy was not running away, so it wasn't too bad. Then we were walking along and Marcy points down a trail and says "go canter that way". And so I do. That day was exhilarating. We cantered off, and I just let her go. The other horse came up from behind, you know, pony and all, and Violet kicked into a gear I didn't even know existed.
At the end of the ride, Marcy had me canter away from her and away from the trailer, and then after a while turn and come back. Again, on the trip back, there was a gear there that I couldn't fathom. I think that is the only time I have truly just let go and let Violet figure out what was coming next and what speed she wanted to go. And while it was terrifying, it was really fun.
This was a different trail ride, but it was still fun once I got over the fact that she Will prance... |
there's nothing quite like the feeling of just letting them go - i love it!!
ReplyDeleteI must admit, it still scares the shit out of me, lol.
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